My son sat beside the world’s worst tourist on a flight from Sydney to Denpasar, Indonesia. His seatmate nursed a bottle of sizzurp — a potent mix of codeine and Sprite –, and the man twitched uncontrollably for the seven-hour flight to Bali.

When the intoxicated tourist disembarked on the conservative Hindu island, he collapsed on the terminal floor. The last time I saw him, customs officials tried vainly to revive him from an opiate-induced stupor.

Interestingly, Bali has been attracting a lot of bad tourists lately. Earlier this summer, a German visitor defiled a temple by roaming through it without a stitch of clothes. A Russian tourist took pictures of himself seminude on a sacred mountaintop. Indonesians were so incensed that they banned hiking in that area.

It’s not just happening in Indonesia. Bad tourists are everywhere. They’re carving their initials into the Colosseum in Rome. And it gets worse — much worse. Last month, German officials arrested an American tourist after he allegedly pushed two women down a slope near Neuschwanstein Castle, killing one of them.

Tourists are leaving their manners at home.

What’s going on? People are making up for lost time after the pandemic, experts say. They’re flooding popular destinations but leaving their manners at home. 

“And that’s resulting in disruptive or disrespectful tourist behaviors,” says Carla Bevins, an assistant professor at Carnegie Mellon University’s Tepper School of Business.

Wait, hasn’t this always been a problem? Yes, but not to this extent.

“It’s gotten worse since the pandemic,” says Joel Wesseldyke, a travel advisor with JJ Travel Associates. “I think people became more entitled because the expectations changed so drastically, people felt comfortable making demands, and getting exactly what they wanted, without regard for other people.”

What’s a bad tourist?

You’d think most parents would have taught their children about good behaviour, but some tourists missed that class. Here’s a refresher.

They’re disruptive.

Many tourists do not respect the place’s customs and are not mindful of the environment. “They’re loud in public areas and leave trash behind,” says Pradeep Guragain, who co-founded a travel planning site about Nepal. I see it every evening in Canggu, Indonesia, as tourists trample on the incense and offerings left at the many temples.

They’re entitled.

Jodi RR Smith, an etiquette consultant, says people feel “more entitled” to the vacation they want, no matter the consequences or the cost. They make outrageous demands, and they ignore local customs and norms. They also don’t care how their actions affect those around them.

They disrespect their hosts.

The worst tourist behaviour Laura Lynch witnessed was a tourist carving his initials into Cambodia’s historic Angkor Wat temples. (There’s a theme here — bad tourists like to cut their names on national treasures.) “It was an appalling sight, underlining a careless approach toward the travel destination,” says Lynch, who edits a site about travelling in California. Thumbing your nose at your hosts isn’t just bad manners. It can get you arrested, imprisoned and expelled.

News flash: You may be a bad tourist.

If you think you might be a bad tourist, you probably are. And yes, I’m including myself. I’ve been travelling full-time since 2017, and the more I consider these behaviours, the more I realize I’m part of the problem.

I’m not carving my initials into the side of monuments or pushing fellow tourists off cliffs, but I’m also not being respectful of local customs.

For example, I didn’t research Indonesia sufficiently before I got there. I didn’t know the first thing about Balinese customs, and I may have even tripped over one of the temple offerings on my way to the beach. 

By the way, I asked a Balinese hotelier what happened to tourists who stepped on the temple offerings. She said it depends on your intention. Suppose you meant to crush the incense underfoot; bad karma. If you don’t, you are forgiven.

Still, I didn’t even learn the two most essential words in Balinese — please and thank you.

How to be a better tourist.

Can you improve your tourism etiquette? You bet.

Do your homework. Learn about your destination and its norms and customs before you visit. Also, learn some basic phrases in the local language. At a bare minimum, learn how to say “thank you.” Even if locals know your native language, saying “thank you “ in their language is a sign of respect. “Take the time to learn about local customs and environmental practices before you embark on your journey,” says Michael Donovan, who edits a site about travel to New England.

Remember that you’re a guest. Whether visiting a state park or flying halfway around the world, don’t forget you are a visitor. Be respectful of local values and customs. And please leave the caps and T-shirts with political slogans at home. “Religious or provocative imagery, curse words, profanity, sports teams, political brands and national flags are all potentially offensive,” says Harding Bush, a senior manager for security operations at Global Rescue.  

Listen, don’t speak. Travel is a terrific opportunity to learn about a new place. Please don’t blow it by talking about yourself. And really, no one is interested in how a place you’re visiting compares to where you’re from. “If you constantly compare your host country to home, forgetting to savor the unique beauty and customs of where you are, that’s a big red flag,” says Mal Hellyer, a photographer and travel blogger.

Reality check: The bad tourists don’t care.

It’s a safe bet that only the good tourists — or the ones who want to be better tourists — have made it this far in this story. The others stopped scrolling after the story about the comatose passenger. 

So I can confidently make this prediction: The future will be filled with more incidents of reckless tourists defacing national treasures, passing out on terminal floors, and even pushing each other off cliffs.

And to you, bad tourists, I have only one thing to say: Thank you. You’ve given this travel columnist so much material for future stories. But you have also inspired me to become a better tourist. You’ve inspired all of us. 

 

 

 

Written by: Christopher Elliott

 

 

BIO:

Christopher Elliott is an author, consumer advocate, and journalist. He founded Elliott Advocacy, a nonprofit organization that helps solve consumer problems. He publishes Elliott Confidential, a travel newsletter, and the Elliott Report, a news site about customer service. If you need help with a consumer problem, you can reach him here or email him at chris@elliott.org.

 

 

 

 

 

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